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10 Tips To Start Chatting With Your Crush

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Apr 24, 2021
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Listen, it’s time to stop deleting the words you just wrote and do it. Send that text to your crush. Stop getting all up in your head and wondering what comes after what; you’re going to get a headache and end up saying ‘ok’ instead of communicating your feelings.

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It can be scary, but the worst thing that can happen is that you and your crush are not a good match. That’s a better problem to have rather than looking back and regretting that you never tried at all.

Before you get all clammy fingered and overshare, striking up a convo with your crush should help you get to the heart of things. You want the juiciest convos that bring you both closer. Therefore, erase one-word answers with these top ten questions for an epic chat with your crush.

Give Them A Compliment

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If a compliment can do wonders for your self-esteem, imagine what it could do for others. Perhaps your crush is wearing something that looks great on them, like a top that compliments the eyes. Let them know.

Find Out Their Pet Peeves

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Photo by Greg Raines on Unsplash

As much as it is crucial to find out what your crush is attracted to, you may want to find out their pet peeves. Therefore, find out what turns them off. Try questions like what celebrities do they not like? What fashion trends can they not stand. This will prompt them to ask you the same.

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Are They Introverted or Extroverted?

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Your compatibility is essential; never forget that. You will go out for a yummy date sometime, so it would be a significant letdown if it flops because of preferences. Are they more comfortable spending time indoors? Do they like going out every night? Maybe you can all work around it, or perhaps you might pass.

Find Out What Gifts They Would Like To Receive

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Who doesn’t love a thoughtful gift? Ask your crush about their most memorable gift so that you can find out what matters most to them. Moreover, this will come in handy later when you are finally a couple.

What Is Their Biggest Fear?

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There is something about sharing secrets that bring people together. By asking your crush about their fears, you will find yourself bonding over something. Even if your fears do not align, you will have deep, you know about each other.

Find Out What Their Love Language

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Communicating on someone’s level can inspire a deeper level of understanding. Think about it. Wouldn’t you love someone to get you? Therefore, if you haven’t already, find out what your love language is first. Once you know, you can also ask your crush. It will open a deeper connection between the both of you.

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What Pets Do They Like?

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Do not worry about one-word answers to this question. Many people have strong opinions about this question, so expect a lot of back and forth. To be more specific, ask your crush if they are a cat or dog person. Cue the opinions. This innocent question will have you two embark on a journey of memes and inside jokes. This conversation will have you chatting for hours.

What is Their Most Embarrassing Moment

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There is nothing like a good laugh to get you two closer. By asking this, the intention is to elicit laughter for a genuine emotional connection. If you’re in doubt, we would like to clue you in on the science behind it. Laughter releases dopamine, a neurotransmitter that increases emotional connection. The result will be a longer conversation.

Try To Find Out Common Interests

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Finding out the common interests can be as simple as finding out their thoughts on a matter. These can range from their opinions on a show you are both watching, to asking for their input on something you wish to pick out, like shoes or pets. This conversation is simple, but it’s the simple things that matter.

Do They Want To Be In A Relationship?

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Last but not least is a biggie. Is your crush looking for a relationship at the moment? Do not fear asking this because you do not want to be wasting your precious time. It does not have to be point-blank. You can share a small tidbit about your dating life and ask them if they are in the same headspace.

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