Unpacking The Dark & Dangerous Side Of Dating Apps

Dating apps can be a great way to meet people and form lasting relationships, but there are downsides to them as well. There are things to be wary of in every sphere of our lives, but we should take special care to ensure we’re safe on dating apps. 

There is a severe dark side to dating apps, and there are things that we should always be aware of and look out for when we are on dating apps. We’re not just talking about the creepy guy that won’t stop saying “Hi” either. 

Here are some of the things that you should be aware of when you’re using dating apps. 

Too Much, Too Soon

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When on a dating app, you will encounter many types of people, and you must figure out what kind of person they are rapidly. This will ensure that you can get rid of those who are not suitable for you. 

One thing to look out for are people who want too much, too soon. If somebody is pushing a sexual relationship five minutes after you’ve begun talking, you can probably assume that they’re not interested in you as a person. 

Know When To Quit

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While dating apps can lead to significant and special connections, sometimes you simply don’t feel the same way about somebody as they feel about you, and you’ll need to stop the relationship. 

This can lead to stalking. You must be careful with what information you allow people access to early on in your relationship because if you want to end it and are armed with all of your information, it can be perilous for you. 

Stand Up For Yourself

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Some people can become very intimidating after being rejected on dating apps. It is crucial that even if you feel afraid that you do not show it. These kinds of people will take advantage of any moment of weakness. 

You should let the person know that they do not intimidate you and that you have everything that you need to protect you from them should they try and harm you in any way. 

Double Date

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Meeting someone on a dating app is risky at the best of times, so it is vital to ensure that you are careful and practice as much safety as possible at all times. You can do this in many different ways. 

Instead of meeting someone in person alone for the first time, take a friend along. Double dating is a great way to make sure that you are safe and that the person is who they say they are. You could also choose to meet in a public place where many people would discourage any dangerous activity.

Written By:
Daniella Segell

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