10 Tips That Will Improve Your Bedroom Abilities

Get out of the sexual rut. Improve your abilities in the sheets and ensure mind-blowing sex for you and your partner with these tips.

The major key is to build your confidence around sex. It helps a lot to know what you want in bed and what your partner likes because, in that way, you can get the most out of the experience.

So start with building your comfortability with the topic and add on some of the rest of these tips to improve bedroom abilities.

Sex Research 

Photo by Womanizer WOW Tech on Unsplash

Scroll through and read some information about sex and have conversations about your sexual likes and dislikes in a non-sexual context.

When On Top

Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash

When you’re on top, focus on the grinding and the sensation that you get from it more than the hopping up and down. 

Get Out of Your Head

Photo by Womanizer WOW Tech on Unsplash

Don’t get caught up wondering if you’re doing certain things ‘correctly’. The only correct way is the way that feels good. So bring your attention to what feels good for and your partner.

Get All the Parts Of The Body Involved 

Photo by Womanizer WOW Tech on Unsplash

There are various erogenous spots on the body. This is also why talking to your partner about their likes is a good thing. You’ll know just where to tickle to get a laugh.

Refer To Porn

Photo by Womanizer WOW Tech on Unsplash

When in doubt, draw some inspiration from some sex-positive porn sites. If you and your partner are into it, the two of you can watch some sexy material together.

Start With You

Photo by Mareko Tamaleaa on Unsplash

While sex can release some feel-good hormones, feeling stressed can make it difficult for you to get into the mood. Sometimes you need to get stagnant energy moving in your body. Try out yoga or just turn on some music and dance alone and let loose.


Photo by Womanizer WOW Tech on Unsplash

Explore your sexuality and all the things you like. In addition to the pleasure you’ll get from it, you’ll know just how to express your wants and needs to your partner.

Be Adventurous

Photo by Womanizer WOW Tech on Unsplash

Do it in the morning. Do it in the kitchen. Do it on the washing machine. Do it upside down. Do it with some toys. Roleplay. Don’t be shy to explore!

Tantric Sex

Photo by Alexander Krivitskiy on Unsplash

Take the pressure off of reaching orgasm and enjoy sex simply for the fun of it. At its basic, that’s what tantric sex is all about.

Focus on Clitoral Stimulation

Photo by Malvestida Magazine on Unsplash

Most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. So touch yourself down there during sex to maximize pleasure and possibly catch the elusive O. 

Written By:
Tumisang Mosito

Recommended Posts